Were they on a break?

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Yeah but people seem to unsee that Rachel invited Mark over BEFORE Ross even considered DANCING with the copy place girl. Mark being at Rachel's place and Ross acknowledging that resulted into Ross being weak enough to sleep with that chick. He did it only out of spite.

Now, I totally understand Rachel as well, as I mentioned in my previous posts, but it always seemed to me that Ross always gave 100% of herself to her and tbh she didn't appreciate it much.

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Fri Sep 23, 2011 5:14 am

channy wrote:: Yeah but people seem to unsee that Rachel invited Mark over BEFORE Ross even considered DANCING with the copy place girl. Mark being at Rachel's place and Ross acknowledging that resulted into Ross being weak enough to sleep with that chick. He did it only out of spite.

Yeah, I see your point. And I understand Ross being upset/mad about it, but he could have listened to her, I mean it's Rachel. I know he was jealous of her but she made herself so clear so many times that there was nothing going on. How could he not trust her that much? He thought that even still with him (because as I said they didn't broke up) she would had sex with Mark? What did he think of her?
And she tried to call him so she could explain herself. If he had going home it wouldn't happen.

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Fri Sep 23, 2011 1:44 pm

his_lobster wrote:

sarafena wrote:

j-man wrote:: Our lives would be so much easier if they didn't take a break at all...

Words cannot describe how incredibly true that statement is. Then Emily would have never existed and I wouldn't have tried to kill her through the television screen :|

BUT if they never went to England for Emily and Ross's wedding, maybe Mondler wouldn't have happened!!!! :( Or maybe it would've just later in time... Everything happens for a reason! ;D

I've thought of that before! I hate Emily and everything, but her wedding with Ross created Mondler in a way!

And I'm on team Ross, but c'mon Mr.Rachel, you REALLY screwed things up.

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Fri Sep 23, 2011 2:51 pm

I've discussed this so much that I don't even know which side to take anymore hahaha. I concluded that both were wrong at some point. But being a jealous person ( blushing

), I would probably react the same Rachel did after discovering everything. But also, I would have been totally upset if I called my girlfriend and the guy I didn't like and I thought it was with her, answered the phone...

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lexcentralperk wrote:: I've discussed this so much that I don't even know which side to take anymore hahaha. I concluded that both were wrong at some point. But being a jealous person ( ), I would probably react the same Rachel did after discovering everything. But also, I would have been totally upset if I called my girlfriend and the guy I didn't like and I thought it was with her, answered the phone...

Hahahahaha I understand what you mean about what side to take! But you're right in your conclusion!

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Sat Sep 24, 2011 2:29 am

I think that they really were on a break, but what Ross did wasn't cool, and also, I hate Mike for going to Rachel's apartment, she had the intention of calling Ross, just like she did, but Ross heard Mike and everything got messed up D:... anyway, I think they both were wrong, and I guess I would react like Rachel...Could this BE any more complicated? what?

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Sat Sep 24, 2011 2:49 am

That's the whole point I think... I know I would react like Rachel in that situation. As I said, I would really thought that he didn't care about me that much if he slept with someone else while he was with me. None of Rachel's mistakes were as bad as Ross mistake.
If he had talked to Rachel she would invite him over (probably), they would talk, she would say that she was wrong for the "maybe we should take a break" thing and they would have figure out a solution. Ross really should have gone home. =/

Oh, one more thing: Mark wasn't really invited by Rachel. As I recall, she said she didn't need him to come or something like that. He said "I'm comming over" and he did. She really did not invite. She didn't even called him. I know Ross didn't know that, but as I said, he didn't gave her a chance, he hang up on her.
If I were on a break with someone and the person I was insanely jealous of were on his home, I would want to know why, because we did not break up.

That's why I think I would pick Rachel's side. BUT I also think I would have been able to forgive him a bit early. I don't think I would need to write the 18 pages letter (front and back) and make him take all the responsability for it. Because she knew he regreted.

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Sat Sep 24, 2011 4:48 am

lexcentralperk wrote:: ...But also, I would have been totally upset if I called my girlfriend and the guy I didn't like and I thought it was with her, answered the phone...

Riiight, I forgot that! She DID screw up too!

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Sat Sep 24, 2011 4:50 am

Rachel Karen wrote:: Oh, one more thing: Mark wasn't really invited by Rachel. As I recall, she said she didn't need him to come or something like that. He said "I'm comming over" and he did. She really did not invite. She didn't even called him. I know Ross didn't know that, but as I said, he didn't gave her a chance, he hang up on her.

But I still think she could have done something. I mean, she fulfilled Ross' jealousy in a way...

Subject: Re: Were they on a break? Sat Sep 24, 2011 4:55 am

Yes, I think so too.
But anyway, the only thing I am saying is that I understand both of them, but in my point of view I think Ross was the one that overreacted more and that made him do something that was way worse than anything that Rachel did. So that's why I would pick her side if I had to choose one. :D

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